Although this Victorian lady is seated in a garden with a cupide statue, angels, no doubt, work to bring love into our lives. Romantic love included. It is a good idea to let God help you choose.
While St. Valentine was imprisoned and martyred, he showed a jailer’s daughter the love of Jesus, I read that she had her sight restored and he had signed his letter to her, your Valentine. Which is why we give cards. The Romans had young people just draw names and get married.
God’s ways are always better. Heis love. 1 John 4:8.